Kinda funny how things have changed! My wife and I raised our two boys old school! No free rides , no slack and accountability is expected without compromise. Funny how birds of a feather flock? I don't think so!we as a country have grown to accept mediocre as good enough!?! BULL SHIT! I can now sit back and reap the reward! Oldest double major in public health and epidiemolgy. Youngest boy headed to Maine Maritime in the fall, and of course he's in the regiment and large vessel ops program! Moral story be an active old school parent! My grandparents had it figured out!!!