I have a silimilar setup, 200 and 235 saddle tanks with a crossover line and valve between them. On my draw/return selector valve's, i draw from both tanks and return only to starboard. I also only refuel to port tank (just convenience). I usually refuel 100-150 gallons, and keep the tanks max 3/4 full. Basically using 1/4 to 3/4 of capacity. Probably ran 10-12,000 gallons in the last 2 years with no issues. Only caution is if you let the boat sit overnight low on fuel with even a slight list, the remaining fuel will shift in that direction and the list will become more pronounced.